Home
Unity Victoria
Unity views on...
Programs
Newsletter
Contact us

Unity Church
of Victoria
SUNDAY SERVICE
at 10:30 AM
Alix Goolden Hall
in the
Conservatory of Music
907 Pandora Ave.
Victoria, BC
Children's Program
Fellowship time after service each week


Back to the Articles Index

 

Rev. Donald O'Connor
Minister Emeritus

Be aware of the Mind in you that defines who you are.

Title: HOW TO PRAY:

ACKNOWLEDGE GOD, ASK (ACCEPT), AND GIVE THANKS!

"Praying" for something seems to me to be like a letter to Santa Claus or wishing for something we really have little hope for. It doesn't sound like Jesus' teaching to ask of God, "Our Father," who loves us!

My definition of the essence of prayer is the acknowledgement of God. So meditation is my idea of how to pray. In meditation we are in communion with God, trusting God. God is not a reluctant parent, so we ask, expecting what we have in mind or something better. God wants only our Highest Good, and that is what we want!

Praying for something is only hoping for it. In meditation we give thanks, as Jesus did, before we receive it. Meditation is never future- oriented. It is a NOW experience. God is NOW. Any desired thing is NOW in God-Mind and in God's willingness in terms of what I have written above.

I may have wished for something or other at Christmas when I was a small child, but Unity has helped me to go beyond wishing. Preoccupation with materiality has always been extremely distasteful to me. But, at the same time, for years I had a vague realization that this kept me from acknowledging things that were perfectly legitimate for me to ask for.

That last sentence let's you know what I am seeking to convey to you. You and I are channels for bringing God's limitless creativeness into expression and manifestation. Technically Unity thinks of expression as in relation to intangibles such as the expression of talents. Manifestation we relate to physical, material things: food, clothes, money, houses, and laptops!

I suppose I used to think of material things - or wanting material things - as unspiritual. But there is nothing intrinsically unspiritual or bad about material things. Basically my point is Jesus' point: don't be caught up in what Jesus called "this world" - wanting things more than the fulfillment that comes simply from the consciousness of never being "in want" -

"The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want." - Psalm 23.

Unity minister, Catherine Ponder, is without question the most qualified Unity teacher on the subject of prosperity. Dealing with the appearance of scarcity as a single mother in her early years of study and teaching, she entered into an intensive study of the Fillmores' writings on the subject and went on to check out how prosperity is taught in the Bible. As a result, she has written a series of books on prosperity and has for a good many years kept up a lively correspondence with her readers whose stories provide evidence for the efficacy of her ideas about rising above the poverty and scarcity consciousness that has bedevilled the human family. She has become affluent and is noted among us Unity ministers for her amazing consciousness of giving. For example, she has donated hundreds of her books to Unity churches. I bring her up in this piece because she has been blessed in never falling into materiality, but is an advocate of the idea that it is ridiculous to live in lack!

I was a director of Unity Training School, predecessor of our present seminary, when Catherine was in her years of preparing for the Unity ministry, and I well remember her refreshing, vital personality. (She looked like Audrey Hepburn). I had the pleasure of visiting her and her young son in Birmingham, Alabama when she was just starting out. From her humble beginning in those tiny quarters, she has indeed come a long way! I am grateful for her excellent work in the field of giving and receiving of God's abundance because she has helped me get rid of some of my faulty thinking.

Unity minister, Hal Rosencrans, a close friend of mine who also came through my teaching days at the School, said something one day that influenced my thinking on prosperity. As a Unity Field Lecturer, I was visiting him in West Palm Beach, Florida. Hal had a real prosperity consciousness. Several millionaires were very pleased with his teaching and gave generously to the ministry which became one of our outstanding churches. Hal and I were arguing one day about the subject of ministers' salaries. I was arguing from the position of yielding salary so the church could have the money. This was too much for Hal. He of course was as interested as I was that his church should prosper, but he shouted at me, "But how much are you willing to accept?!" In other words, do you suppose it is OK for you to prosper too? I got the point and returned to my prosperous church in Seattle and worked out a much better pay arrangement.

The message is there for all of us: how much of God's abundance are we willing to accept? Our Victoria church blesses the offerings we give to our church with the statement PLENTY TO SHARE AND PLENTY TO SPARE.

I think we all know how we would answer the question, WOULD YOU HONESTLY PREFER TO BE POOR OR RICH? And then we would say, "And I want everyone in the world to share abundantly of life's riches!"

So, as it turns out, asking and accepting are the same thing, the acknowledgement of God's willingness:

"Fear not, little flock; for it is your Father's good pleasure to give you the kingdom." - Luke 12:32.

How you and I acknowledge God has everything to do with all that we do and experience! Simply to move away from whatever negatives are operating in our consciousness by focusing on God instead is the basic idea. We then are in the position of opening up to all that we believe is true about the cosmic God nature that is best defined in terms of unlimited creativeness. To do this immediately creates a celebration in me. So the larger idea of what I mean by acknowledging God is the celebration of God "in awesome wonder," realizing that “it is no secret what God can do." It is not so much what God can do; it is more what God is doing perpetually, every moment of your life and mine, regardless of what we think the problems are!

The great prayers of history are essentially celebratory. Think of the Psalms, The Prayer of St. Francis, The Prayer of St. Patrick, The Prayer of Faith, James Dillet Freeman's favorite: God is my help in every need/God does my every hunger feed, etc. All present tense!

Prayer is what we do to be in sync with life, with ourselves, with people, with our talents and desires. In buying and selling and in making choices, prayer is not hoping everything will work out. It is rather knowing God is now in the process of working it out as a win/win experience for everyone. As we move out of doubt and fear and every other negative, God's answer, God's supply, can slip through the cracks!!

God is continually informing us with what we need to know and do, also unfolding a deeper understanding of life's secrets. The more we meditate, get quiet, contemplate, celebrate, the more we get in touch with! The Unity idea of affirmative prayer, which we basically use to identify ourself with God as who and what we are, is a great way to acknowledge God. When we have a problem or a need, we affirm the Truth and thereby open a channel.

"In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths." - Proverbs 3:6.

Don

Home
Unity Victoria
Unity views on...
Programs
Newsletter
Contact us



Unity Church of Victoria
Office Hours: Wed and Thurs. 10 am to 2 pm
Office Location/Mailing Address: 838 Pandora Ave.
Victoria B.C. CANADA V8W 1P4
Phone: 250-382-1613
Fax: 250-382-8456
E-mail:
info@unityvictoria.ca