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Rev. Donald O'Connor
Minister Emeritus
If we grasp it and live it, the glorious concept of UNITY
will answer all the world's problems!

Title: Forgiveness is For Yourself

He worked with the Dalal Lama in Northern Ireland towards conflict resolution and he has been more than once with the Palestinians and Israelis endeavoring to help them resolve their fears and hatreds. Norman Fischer is a Zen Buddhist priest and teacher. He was abbot of the San Francisco Zen Center from 1995 to 2000 and founded the Everyday Zen Foundation. In Unity Magazine for May-June 2002 he writes on "Forgiveness and Reconciliation."

Will you think with me about something that he writes?

"So forgiveness is for yourself. In a way, it doesn't really affect the other person. If you forgive someone, it doesn't get them off the hook for what they have done. They are still responsible for their actions. No one can ever escape the consequences of action; everyone has themselves to answer for and live with."

At first reading, thinking that he meant we can't forgive (that is, heal and transform) others, I wrote in my journal, "But Jesus asked God to forgive others, 'for they know not what they do.' I believe this is a prayer each of us may use."

And here is what I then wrote: "And right now I'm thinking, since the One God created each of us, each of us has the divine right and power and authority to forgive others from the position of offspring of God, saying, I forgive you, I free you from your act and from your guilt, just as I free myself from my former reactions. I love you, the highest gift I can give you. I love you for defending everything and everyone that is dear and sacred and valuable to you. As I love you, I allow your love to flow through your hurt or hatred or fear and to penetrate mine, to penetrate into hitherto closed places in my heart and mind, places that are not mine alone but belong to the species. So my prayer is that we may allow love and forgiveness to cause all of us who call ourselves members of the human species to rise into a true sense of family, of brotherhood and sisterhood, to rise into the holiness of accepting now our joint stewardship for the planet that is our beautiful home and for the unlimited spiritual possibilities that the One God of us all offers to us again and again no matter what we still need to learn, and as long as we need to learn, until we have all learned and love as one!"

Then I began to realize what a complex problem this matter of forgiving others is (to say nothing about the rigors of attempting to forgive ones-self!). It may require the spiritual power of a Christed person to free others of hatred, fear, and guilt. We Unity students have always had the idea that this is why Jesus trained disciples and was teaching others to claim the same God-endowed powers that He was expressing. So we have invoked the Jesus Christ consciousness in our healing/forgiving work, believing that God can still work the miracles. Certainly there are many wonderful stories of healing/forgiving results in our ministries.

On the day that I write this, Victoria's Times Colonist newspaper has the story of the transformation of Johnny Lee Clary who was the Imperial Wizard of the Ku Klux Klan. This took place as a result of the love and forgiveness expressed towards him by the Rev. Wade Watts, a black minister of the very church Clary had set fire to. Sitting in a radio station waiting for Watts to come and debate with him on the air and expecting Watts to show hatred towards him and all whites as he had been brainwashed to believe, Watts arrived, shook his hand and said "I love you."

The beginning of the healing took place then and there, but it took ten years for Clary to resign from the Klan. However, in just two more years he answered the call to preach the Word of God. Soon afterwards he and Watts began a friendship and a ministry that took them around the world preaching against racial bigotry and protesting at Klan meetings.

So there may be some time involved in these transformations of forgiveness, and indeed the person who was forgiven may have a tremendous internal work to effect for the healing to be complete. Fischer is not wrong in pointing this out.

Jesus' Parable of the Sower actually makes this point too: it is up to the receptivity of the forgivee as to whether he/she is ready and willing!

This does not dilute what I wrote after my first reading of Fischer's article, does it? No, my major point is that we need more Christ (One God) consciousness actively expressed without timidity and with the full understanding that "with God all things are possible" for Jesus Christ results to be replicated. What are you thinking?

Don

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Office Hours: Wed and Thurs. 10 am to 2 pm
Office Location/Mailing Address: 838 Pandora Ave.
Victoria B.C. CANADA V8W 1P4
Phone: 250-382-1613
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