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Rev. Donald O'Connor
Minister Emeritus
If we grasp it and live it, the glorious concept of UNITY
will answer all the world's problems!

Title: UNCONDITIONAL LOVE: THE ENVIRONMENT OF THE KINGDOM, Part 2
(Click here for Part 1)

My typed sheet was in a folder safely in the hands of our webmaster - all complete! But, wait, look at the quote on the bottom of Vicki Vanderhorst's notepage!! It was from Tolstoy:

"I believe in God, who is for me spirit, love, the principle of all things. I believe that God is in me, as I am in Him. I believe that the reason for life is for each of us to grow in love. I believe that this growth in love will contribute more than any other force to establish the Kingdom of God on Earth."

In my piece I had 'written

"As more and more of us enter the Kingdom of God by finding the entrance marked Unconditional Love, we will not only become more loving and establish a world of love and peace. We will also experience all of the added things."

So at first I thought it would be a good idea to ask Gordon to add Tolstoy's words to my piece. But I put this thought down quickly with the insight that I would probably want to write a sequel to the February piece, so here it is.

In the DAILY WORD lesson for February 5th (I had turned in my website piece on Sunday, January 25th) I was gratified to read these words:

I may not think that every day is perfect---just as I would have it be---but I know God's grace is perfect, an unconditional love that is constant and unfailing.

All the month of February I have of course been continuing to think about how everything seems to flow out of unconditional love, which we might think of as the name of God!

Here are some statements from the Bible that add to our idea:

  • Romans 13:10 says, "Love worketh no ill to his neighbour: therefore love is the fulfilling of the law."
  • Then we read in 1 John 4:7,8, and 16: "Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God.
    "He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love."
    "And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him."

In his magnificent analysis of love (found in 1. Cor. 13) the Apostle Paul says that no matter what we do, if it is not done with love, it has no true worth. He goes on to list, among the aspects of love, love that "suffereth long, and is kind, envieth not, vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil, rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth, beareth all things, believeth all things, endureth all things."

So as I seek really to be in this kingdom of love, I have been reminding myself of all these things that love can accomplish in our behavior and relationships - and it has been helping.

"Slow to anger" is another way of saying "is not easily provoked." I've really been working with that one!

One realization that has been a recurrent theme for me is that I don't have to be right all the time or have the last word or even have a comment sometimes. Let other persons be the free individual expressions of God that they really are. Let them be! Unconditional love says to me that things are not as world-shaking as I have sometimes felt. As Charles Fillmore wrote, love is a universal solvent!

Shortly after coming up with this unconditional love idea, I was going through my typical attempt to be perfect (anytime I get a new spiritual idea, I think it will produce this result) as I approached a putt on the golf course. The inner dialogue went something like this: Well, if I'm really in the consciousness of unconditional love, I ought to be able to sink this putt (not a long one, at that!) But when I missed it, I said to myself, it doesn't really matter, does it!

What a good feeling.

Let's face it. We human beings do miss a good many putts, fail to make a good many phone calls, forget to buy what we were told to get at the grocery store - and a lot of things that we normally think of as pretty bad mistakes. Not just me; not just you; not just the premier, etc., etc. Oh, what a difference it will make when we gently release all of this stuff into the pool of unconditional love.

I hope some of you reading this and last month's pieces on unconditional love will be blessed as you make an attempt to live this way. And I will be gratified if you will communicate your experiences with me.

Don

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Office Hours: Wed and Thurs. 10 am to 2 pm
Office Location/Mailing Address: 838 Pandora Ave.
Victoria B.C. CANADA V8W 1P4
Phone: 250-382-1613
Fax: 250-382-8456
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